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01 May 2008 @ 05:53 pm
To all the girls out there...  

I have seen too many girls sticking to their BFs even when they are not very nice guys. And I myself, have also done the same in the past. I was with BY for 2 years, and I was with A for two years as well. 




Credits to Stickgal.

With A, the first year was good. Although the first 6 months he wasnt around, he was in Australia finishing the last lap of his training. I spent so much money on calling cards, so that we could chat on the phone for hours every night. It was very sweet. I was broke, but very happy.

Unfortunately I cant say the same for the second year of the relationship. After I started the business, it got worse. We drifted apart because he was not around half the time, and I was always busy all the time. I dont blame him anymore, for the failure of the relationship, because well..some pepple are just not meant to be together. I just hope he's happy now, afterall everyone is entitled to happiness.

But I wish I ended these relationships earlier, because even when I already knew it wasnt going anywhere, I refused to give up. And you know girls are usually very soft-hearted. After a quarrel, he apologises, treats you well again, and you think you should give him another chance because afterall you already been through so much. Im sure many girls can relate to this.

BUT what Im trying to say here is... Dont waste your precious youth on men who are not worth it. There are so many of them out there, and there's bound to be someone who will treat you better, cherish you more and love you like a princess.

Every girl deserves to find their Prince Charming, who will treat them like a Princess!

Bottom line is, if you keep sticking to Mr Not-So-Right, you will never find Mr Right. Now, isnt that a horrifying thought?

BE STRONG GIRLS! If he's not good to you, always makes you cry, always makes you angry... DUMP HIM. If he's a lousy BF, chances are he will be a lousy husband. And then the rest of your life will be fucked. Please dont allow that to happen, my dears.


Credits to Stickgal.

I'd rather be alone, than be with a lousy guy lor.









 
 
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blissfultyrant[info]blissfultyrant on May 1st, 2008 10:29 am (UTC)
:( lyn I wish I was as strong as you esp the part about being alone then a lousy guy. I must say my ex isn't THAT lousy.

But there are times now I wish I had someone too.

Now I'll just love myself and just do my things and maybe the 'right' one will come along. Saying is easy living everyday isnt.

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strawberrydots[info]strawberrydots on May 1st, 2008 10:36 am (UTC)
Aw.. *hugs* I know it sounds really cliched, but time really heals all wounds.. Someday the right one will come along. U wont believe it now, but when it happens, u will feel silly for being sad! Be strong dear! :)
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Livia[info]liverella on May 1st, 2008 10:56 am (UTC)
It is all so true, sometimes you wonder if it is really worth all the effort.
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~~ Mrs Priscilla Goh ~~[info]prisc on May 1st, 2008 11:37 am (UTC)
Agree. I've seen too many gals who are in a r/ship just so they can't bear to break up or because they've been together so XX years.

It's a crap reason and they deserve so much better. :)
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foxye[info]foxyseven on May 1st, 2008 11:55 am (UTC)
^^v
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Pinnards[info]pinnards on May 1st, 2008 12:31 pm (UTC)
hmm i think the fourth picture should have a heart shaped hole on top of it otherwise it doesn't make much sense or at least looks disjointed...
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APRIL || DAILYJUICYNEWS.NET[info]siyue on May 2nd, 2008 12:41 am (UTC)
True true. Myself spent 7yrs with ex-bf eventhough I wasn't happy at all because he wasn't anywhere near my ideal.
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